I suppose we are all special to those who love us, as are those we love. But as individuals what makes us special? Does anything make us special?
Jose Mourinho was the so called "special one" because of his man management skills at Chelsea and other Clubs. But man management is a skill that Martin O'Neill has, Alex Ferguson, Rafa Benitez, and King Kenny. So that skill isn't special, it is unique. They all have their own way of man management, field management, time management and practice management. These are their unique traits. So what makes them special.
This article from Scotland gives an example of "special"
HE’S best known as King Kenny … but this week a TV documentary will reveal Kind Kenny.
It will show how Kenny Dalglish’s charity work stretches to the Outer Hebrides.
Gaelic channel BBC Alba’s King Kenny – Sgeulachd Dalglish (Dalglish’s Story) on Wednesday night looks back at the life of the former Celtic, Liverpool and Scotland striker.
But it also highlights his charity work with his wife Marina in the Western Isles.
In January, Dalglish, 60, became manager of his beloved Liverpool for the second time.
Having recovered from breast cancer, Marina devotes her time to fundraising. She and Kenny have been helping the Bethesda Hospice in Stornoway since 2004.
Manager Carol Somerville said: “You only have to mention his name and people light up.
“When there is a patient well enough, we ask if they want to meet him – and they do.
“Even just having a photo taken – memories are so important for the families and this is another for them.
“But he doesn’t think of himself as a celebrity. When you mention the word, he turns round and says, ‘Who?’”
The programme also hears how Kenny has continued to comfort relatives of the Liverpool fans who died in the Hillsborough disaster in 1989, during his first term as manager.
Alex Ferguson is no different;
Fergie praised for charity work
SIR Alex Ferguson was acclaimed by a charity yesterday for helping them to start building a new drop-in centre in his beloved Govan.
The Preshal Trust, founded by reformed alcoholic May Nicholson, has managed to raise £400,000 of the £500,000 it needs to knock down its present centre to provide a new complex purpose built to support disadvantaged adults in Govan.
Ms Nicholson said that without the Manchester United manager’s strong support they would not have managed to raise the amount of money they have.
Ms Nicholson said: “Sir Alex is a humble man. He does more for us than what he will say. He’s the patron and we are trying to build a new building here. But I can tell you that without his help and support, the things he does behind the scenes that he won’t talk about, we wouldn’t be where we are today.”
The Manchester United manager paid tribute to Ms Nicholson’s fortitude as he paid an informal visit to meet dozens of the users of the centre and members of the trust.
He revealed he got involved after Ms Nicholson wrote to him several years ago with a desperate plea for support.
“She was at the bottom of her life, absolutely,” he told The Herald.
“But some people find determination whether through friends or through Christianity, through community they find a way out and survive.
“By surviving she has given herself a purpose.”
Not only are they unique in the world of football, they also, through their profile, and influence, do something more for the world. Be it breast cancer, muscular dystrophy, MS, the Preshal Trust, they are trying to do something that leaves a better world, not just a better soccer world.
So why do I bring this up?
The other day a saw a young man who was afflicted with, I suspect, cerebral palsy. He was with his mother. I know this because in his somewhat difficult speech manner he called her mom. He was adopted. Why, because he and his mother came from clearly different racial backgrounds. I don't know much about the young man, but I know his mother is "special", because she chose this young man to be her son, notwithstanding all of his physical infirmities and communication challenges. He is her son. She has chosen to make this persons life better and hopefully leave a better world behind for him and us.
I reflected on this over the last several days and determined that I need to give something back in addition to coaching. We are all unique and potentially valuable assets to our players and to our Clubs, but what about other activities. These choices are personal, is it the Special Olympics, where a number of developmentally delayed athletes play soccer, is it working with disadvantaged youth who have never been exposed to soccer, or some other group or cause that needs the support and effort of coaches, players and fans like ourselves. We can leave better players, squads and Clubs. That makes us unique from the world around us, we need to find the means to be "special" like that mother, and those who are leaving a better world for those who need a hand up.
You Never Walk Alone
Hal White